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Newborn essentials: only what you'll use

A no-nonsense list that skips the marketing.

Baby shops are designed to convince you that you need everything. You don't. Newborns need feeding, sleeping, changing, warmth and love — almost everything else is optional or can wait. Here's a grounded list of what genuinely earns its place in the first weeks.

Feeding

If breastfeeding: a couple of nursing bras, breast pads, nipple cream, and maybe a feeding pillow. If bottle-feeding (whole or in part): bottles, slow-flow teats, formula, and a way to sterilise. Most other gadgets can be bought later if you find you want them.

Sleeping

• A clear, flat sleep space — a cot, crib or Moses basket — with a firm, flat mattress.
• A few fitted sheets and light cellular blankets or sleeping bags.
• Nothing else in the sleep space: no pillows, bumpers or soft toys (safe-sleep guidance).

Changing and clothing

• Nappies (newborn size) and cotton wool or sensitive wipes.
• A changing mat and barrier cream.
• 6–8 bodysuits and sleepsuits — newborns live in these; sizes 0–3 months too.
• A hat, scratch mittens, and a couple of cardigans.

Out and about

A properly fitted, age-appropriate car seat is non-negotiable. A pram or sling gets you outside. Beyond that — fancy toys, shoes, a wardrobe of outfits, most “must-have” gadgets — can wait until you know your baby and your routine.

Borrow and accept hand-me-downs freely, but always buy a car seat new (so its history is known) and follow current safe-sleep guidance for the cot.