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A gentle list of what to skip

A calm, practical list — not a wall of fear.

Pregnancy comes with a long list of “don'ts,” and most of them get repeated with more alarm than they deserve. The point isn't to live in fear — it's to know the handful of things genuinely worth avoiding, so the rest of your energy goes to enjoying the months ahead. Here's the short, honest version.

Foods

• Alcohol — no level is established as safe, so none is the simplest choice.
• High-mercury fish — shark, swordfish, marlin, king mackerel. Low-mercury fish twice a week is encouraged.
• Unpasteurised milk, soft mould-ripened cheeses and pâté — a listeria risk.
• Raw or undercooked meat, fish and eggs — cook them through.
• Too much caffeine — keep it around 200 mg a day.

Habits and substances

Smoking and vaping reduce oxygen to your baby and are worth stopping — your provider can help, and it's never too late to benefit. Recreational drugs are out. So is more than the occasional dip in a very hot tub or sauna, since overheating in early pregnancy isn't ideal. Always check any new medication or supplement — including herbal ones — with your provider or pharmacist before taking it.

Around the house

• Cat litter — let someone else change it, or wear gloves and wash hands (toxoplasmosis).
• Harsh chemical fumes and solvents — ventilate well and skip the heavy-duty cleaners.
• Lifting very heavy loads, or balancing on ladders as your centre of gravity shifts.
• Raw garden soil — gloves on, hands washed afterwards.

Things you can almost always keep

Plenty of feared things are fine: most exercise, sex, hair colouring after the first trimester, gentle travel, a cup of coffee, your cat (just not the litter). When a rule sounds frightening, check whether it's a real risk or a cautious internet myth — and ask your provider rather than a forum.

This is a general list. Your own history — allergies, conditions, past pregnancies — may add or remove items, so treat your provider's advice as the final word.